How Come You Don't Call Me....
I never quite understood it, but just rationalized it as guys being very very immature or just pure jack a**es. Sometimes I found out the hard way that it was both. In college, I had my bulls*it detector on 24/7, but somehow I always seem to attract the guys who thought I wasn't hip to the game they was runnin' because I was considered the "quiet" girl on campus. Little did they know, I just wanted to see what stupid move they were going to make next. :)
In many of the relationships I was in, and out of I had one huge trend among the guys I really liked. They rarely called back when they said they would. "I'll call you right back", he says. Unfortunately, this usually translated into I'll call you back like a day from now or maybe sometime this week. For some reason this pi*sed me off to no end. And it wasn't just an occasional thing it was consistently. I'm not a woman of many words but when someone says they'll call back that's what I used to assume. With most, I had good relationships with and I would think things were going really well. Then I find myself hearing that Alicia Keys song, "How come you don't call me anymore".
Now most of my friends thought I was nuts. I had this habit of checking my phone making sure that no one had called or text me while my phone was on silent or vibrate in class. Even if the ringer was on I thought some how my phone might have miraculously called and I missed a call. I was so pathetic!
Has anyone ever been through this???