The "Perfect Guy" or The "Perfect" Guy for you?
As we are read fairy tales as little girls, we pretend we are princesses. When we begin to get a little older, we start searching for our prince charming.
Some say that he doesn't exist.
Have you ever heard this from a friend,"Girl, he is perfect" and thought she was crazy?
Well in your mind, THE "Perfect Guy" might not exist. But, I do agree that some of us find THE "perfect guy" for us. He might not be perfect in your eyes, but who cares! You don't have to date/marry him!
As individuals, we should each have our own set of standards. Now, granite some us have higher standards than others...but we all have our own ideas about who that perfect guy is.
For example, Chilli from TLC. On her show,"What Chilli Wants" she had a list of characteristics she was looking for in a man and was very stict about them. She was told that they were un-realistic by several of her friends and her coach, but I don't think that was right. After all, the show was called "What CHILLI Wants" not "What Someone Else wants".
I do believe that there is someone for everyone. That "Perfect Guy" may not exist, but that someone who is "perfect" for you may be out there. But let me tell you, he sure hell isn't going to appear out of nowhere and be on your door step one morning ringing your door bell. You're gonna have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince!
So ladies, let's be individuals and stick to your list. That is if you have one. If that's what you want in a man and he's perfect for you don't listen to others, listen to your heart.
The following blog post was inspired by one of my followers on twitter @KandeeLovesYa.