When I was dating, I was trying to do just that. Search
I was asked by a friend, "What's the problem with looking?", he said "how else are you gonna find something if you don't look."
I used to think the same way, but for some reason when I stopped looking is when I found exactly what I was looking for.
I think when you go out there looking for "someone special", you find just that. Someone special!
Are you catching what I'm saying?
But don't get me wrong ladies...like I've said in my other posts,love will not happen by shutting yourself or your heart off from the world.
Guys will not just magically fall into your lap, unless you're just that bad. So sitting at home with momma, or girlfriend or who ever on the couch man-bashing is not going to get you anywhere (You know who I'm talking to).
When you're ready for love, it will happen. Lonelyness sucks I know...
But Stop forcing stuff!!!!
I know some of you are saying, "How does she know it works?"
Ask me and I'll tell you...
COMMENTS! Let get a discussion going...